Many signs will show if God is connecting you with someone and in this post I will show you the 11 major signs God is connecting you with someone to help you if they are the one or not.
The Lord has many ways He directs people who are right for each other. So, you must not be surprised when God tries to lead your heart to a person you never thought was the one as He works in ways we can’t see.
With that said, let’s look at the 11 signs God is connecting you with someone that will show God is bringing you together for marriage.
11 Signs God Is Bringing You Together.
Below are the 11 signs that will show God is bringing you together for marriage through a deeper connection for each other during your courtship period.
- Shared Values.
- Unexpected Repeated Encounters.
- Indescribable Peace.
- Visions About The Person.
- It Just Feels Right.
- Comfortable Being Yourself.
- Deep Love For Your Partner.
- You Desire To Spend More Time Together.
- You Will Enjoy Each Other’s Company.
- Deep Romantic Connection With Each Other
- You Complement Each Other.
1. Shared Values.
When God connects you with someone, you will notice that you will have shared values or a lot in common especially when it comes to Christian values or your faith.
Having shared values is vital in a relationship as it is what will enable you to frictionlessly walk together in agreement as a couple hoping to get married.
In Amos 3:2, we are told that two people can’t be together unless they agree. This is especially true when it comes to relationships and marriage.
You need to understand that God will never connect you with someone who’s fatally misaligned with your Christian values or faith.
On the other hand, you will have alignment in values if the person God is connecting you with is truly the future spouse He wants you to marry.
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2. Unexpected Repeated Encounters.
If God is trying to connect you with your future husband or future wife, you will also notice you will have frequent unexpected encounters with each other.
This could be in church or place of work where you will find yourself unexpectedly bumping into each other very often even if you didn’t plan to meet each other.
When that happens or find this phenomenon frequently happening to you, pay attention as that could be God speaking to you that this is your destined future spouse to marry.
You need to note that this may not happen to everyone as the Lord leads and directs people in different ways to their suitable partners to marry.
On the other hand, if you find yourself frequently meeting a particular person unexpectedly in unexpected places, it’s something worth investigating and praying about.
3. Indescribable Peace.
I am sure you can testify to this that when you are with someone God is connecting you with, you will have this indescribable peace in your heart that’s hard to explain.
This peace from above is one of the major confirmations the Lord often uses when you are with the right person He wants you to be with for the rest of your life in a happy blissful Christian marriage.
Conversely, if you are in a relationship with the person the Lord hasn’t connected you with on a heart level, you won’t have this inner peace in your heart.
Instead, something just won’t feel right in your spirit if you are with the wrong person God has said no to. Your heart will be unsettled.
If you feel that in your relationship during courtship, it’s a sign from God that the person you are courting, no matter how much you love them is just not the one, full stop.
4. Visions About The Person.
Sometimes, when God has truly connected you with the one, you will begin to have visions about that person confirming he or she is the right person to be married to.
I am sure you have experienced this as well when you were courting in your own life during the stage you were looking for a suitable life partner to tie the knot with.
Moreover, you need to verify any vision you receive as not all visions are from God as Satan, too can give you false visions and dreams to mislead you on the right person to marry.
Henceforth, if you have any persistent visions of the person you want to marry, I encourage you to pray about it rather than jump the gun just because you have a vision.
Many have been misled by false visions on choosing a life partner and are now suffering for their mistake. Remember, when God gives you a vision of who to marry, it will always align with His will and purpose for your life.
5. It Just Feels Right.
The other sign that will help you know that this is God truly connecting you with this person is it will just feel right being with this person. Nothing more, nothing less.
When God brings you together with the right person who’s meant for you to share your life with, everything will just feel right in that moment.
You will have no doubts and a troubled mind as to whether this is the one for you. Your heart will just be at peace and open to the person the Lord is directing you to.
Otherwise, if you are trying to connect with the wrong person, something just won’t feel right in your heart, no matter how romantic that person may be.
Yes, you may say you love this person very much but that’s not the issue. No amount of love you have for the wrong person will magically make them a good fit for you. If someone isn’t a good fit for you, it’s what it is.
6. Comfortable Being Yourself.
When the Lord connects you with the right person if you are a young Christian man or Christian woman desiring a future godly marriage, you will be comfortable being you.
Understand that the Lord will never connect or put you together with a person you won’t be comfortable being yourself or be vulnerable with.
Being your true self is vital in any Christian relationship you may be in as that’s what will help you know if you are right for each other.
Otherwise, if you are afraid of being yourself in your relationship during courtship, what makes you think things will be different in your marriage?
Not being one true self is one of the main reasons many Christians end up with a person who’s not a good fit for them. You need to understand if you are lying about yourself in a relationship, it will just backfire eventually.
7. Deep Love For Your Partner.
One of the signs that will show God is bringing you together as a Christian couple in a relationship in preparation for marriage is you will feel the deep love for each other that you have never felt before with anyone else including your best friends up to this time.
There is just that special unique Christ-like love you will have for this person if it’s God’s will and doing for you to be together for life. It’s this deep love that will bring you close to each other as a Christian couple in your courtship period.
Otherwise, if the person you are courting isn’t the one God has in mind for you, this special deep love that will permanently bond you together as a couple before and after marriage will simply be nowhere to be seen in your relationship at all.
You need to understand that when God is connecting you to someone He wants you to be with for the rest of your married life, He will give you that special love for the person He’s revealed to you to marry.
Real Christ-like love for each other 1 Corinthians 13:4-8 talks about how a couple in a relationship that’s from God is one of the ways you can know that the person you are courting in your relationship as a single person is the one for you.
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8. You Desire To Spend More Time Together.
Another sign that will show God is connecting you with someone on a deeper level in a godly relationship is that you will desire to spend time with each other more often without getting bored of each other.
There will be nothing more blessed and satisfying than spending time with each other to get to know each other more so that you can cultivate a strong friendship, which is the basis for a successful marriage in the future.
Understand that if you want to have a happy and successful marriage where you will enjoy each other’s company without getting tired of seeing each other all the time, you first need to build a strong friendship while courting.
This is vital because it’s what will make you desire to spend time with each other. Once you have a strong friendship as a Christian couple while dating, you will enjoy each other’s company more than that of your friends up to this time.
If you see yourselves not desiring to spend time together, it could be a sign that your relationship isn’t God’s will for both of you because if it is, you will enjoy each other’s company more than anyone else’s, period.
9. You Will Enjoy Each Other’s Company.
Other than desiring to spend time with each other as a Christian couple who are in love and understand what true love is all about, you will enjoy each other’s company the more you spend time together.
You need to remember that God will never send you a person that you will never enjoy being in the company with. But, will send a person that will make you laugh and want to be with for the rest of your life till death do you part.
One of the reasons why many don’t enjoy each other’s company in relationships is that they haven’t consulted the Lord if the person they are courting or claim to be in love with is God’s will for them.
This for most people has resulted in getting married to a person they hardly enjoy being in company with though they live and sleep in the same house or bed.
That’s why it’s vital to wait for the Lord to reveal to you the person you want to marry before making this huge commitment decision if you don’t want to end up with a person you hardly enjoy spending time with.
10. Deep Romantic Connection With Each Other
A deep romantic connection with each other in your godly relationship as Christian singles following godly principles that govern a godly relationship will be another sign that God is trying to connect you with someone.
However, you need to be careful not to allow sinful lusts of the flesh found in worldly immoral relationships to be what governs your relationship. It’s ok to have feelings for each other as we are humans and not robots.
The romantic connection we are talking about here is a godly mutual natural connection between a man and a woman that doesn’t promote sexual immorality we are commanded to flee from and avoid in 1 Corinthians 6:18.
But a godly connection that will draw both of you closer to each other in a godly way and to our Lord Jesus Christ. Remember that the primary thing in your godly romantic relationship is to glorify the Lord and not your sinful flesh.
Let God’s word guide you in this area so that you don’t fall into sexual sin. You will indeed have a deep romantic connection with your partner if God wants to connect you with that person but it will be in a godly and chaste manner.
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11. You Complement Each Other.
Last but not least, another sign that will show God is connecting you with someone He wants you to be within your future marriage life is you will complement each other in many different ways.
Life will feel just so much complete if the two of you are together and if you are not together, you will feel that something is missing in your life.
Being able to complement each other as partners in your relationship is vital and it’s one of the ways God brings people together as God will never give you someone who will not compliment you, especially in areas you are weak.
If you find that you are not complimenting each other be it spiritually or in your secular life, it could be a sign that the person you are courting is a misfit for you and not a suitable life partner the Lord intends you to marry.
It’s just so much easier to connect with a person who compliments you in many ways especially in spiritual matters of faith and in your walk with our Lord Jesus Christ which must be one of the main things you must look for in a godly spouse before saying, “I do.”
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Conclusion.
I hope the above 11 signs God is connecting you with someone have now helped to clearly understand how God connects two people who are meant for each other.
My prayer is may the Lord Jesus Christ connects you to the right person whom you will enjoy spending the rest of your life as you both grow in Him together in love.
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